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Understanding My Playbook

This game is not for the weak. If you are not ready to hear the hard truths about the things causing you to stall before the goal line, then this is not the field that you want to step onto.

When you book a Huddle Up with me, you will feel as though you are talking to your best friend or even a father figure. You are also asking for hard-nosed, straightforward talk, without pulling any punches. It won't be sugarcoated with clinical terms, corporate bull, religion or politics. It will be from the heart, based in fact, and explained in easy-to-understand words to help you see the reality of what is wrong.

I am here to talk about any type of personal fouls on your mind. Maybe it's help dealing with loss, marital problems, moral decisions, children, intimacy issues, or just stuff that you need to talk about and can't say out loud to anyone else. Think of our Huddle Up as your way of Making Common-Sense Common. And if you are fighting over various issues, I will play referee and mediate for you, calling it right down the middle.

I have spent a lifetime of working with people of all ages, so it doesn't matter what stage of life you are in. I work with Rookies (10+), Pros (18-29), and Legends (30+), even offering home-field advantage for local clients to Manassas Park, VA.

Time to Huddle Up

Review the Tape

I am not a mind reader. In this step, you need to take a deep and honest look at what is going on and tell me about it. Holding things back won't help you at all.

Analyze the Data

Together we dive into the good and the bad of what brought you to see me. I don't mean to make you uncomfortable, but I will ask the questions that might scare you.

Call an Audible

If you plan on doing the same thing after our session, that would define insanity. We are switching the plays up until we find the ones that work for you.

Run the Play

As the coach, all I can do now is stand on the sideline and trust you to run the plays we called. I don't know if we get a touchdown or fumble, but we don't give up.

No Flags on the Play

Things The Coachin' Referee is NOT.

NOT Therapy: I do not get into clinical issues or diagnose conditions.

NOT Career Counseling: I don't play with resumes or work as a job recruiter.

NOT Sugarcoated: I don't just tell you something to make you happy and collect money.

NOT Biased: I don't care who you are or where you come from, I call it down the middle.

NOT Afraid: I don't back down from any challenge no matter how tough it is.

NOT Judgmental: We have all screwed up. I am here to help, not judge.

Why Trust My Playbook

Real Life Survivor of Many Games

Specialized in de-escalations for over 20 years
Coached youth and adult sports for several years
Currently work with over 700 kids
Easy to talk to, bringing a calming demeanor and high EQ
Divorced with adult kids and still friends with ex
Everything I do is based in common-sense and realism

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You've got the ball, are you ready to meet me at mid-Field?

Huddle Up

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